2022.01.19 16:39 barrel_stinker Cold Morning on the Seaway [Nikon S3, Voigtlander 35mm f2.5, Superia 200]
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2022.01.19 16:39 Jack_Page homemade double patty hamburger
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2022.01.19 16:39 mariselies I am scared of my cat and in desperate need of advice, ASAP, for my safety and for others'.
Hi guys, I am in severe need of help as I do not know what to do. I am going to try to make this very long story into a short one.
I adopted my cat (O) off of Craigslist when he was 8 weeks old. He is currently 6. We have never had a cat before him and we very stupidly ended up declawing him at a young age because we feared that he would damage the apartment we lived in, (This is something we deeply regret as I feel like it has directly contributed to his personality; I feel extremely guilty).
He lived with me all throughout high school and the beginning of college, until I had a seizure and had to medically withdraw. I moved back home and my life completely changed, and he was very confused during this transition. I was incapacitated in all areas of my life and was unable to care for him, as I was unable to care for myself. My mom so graciously took him into her apartment while I lived with my father. She has now become his new "mom."
It wasn't long after that my aunt gave me a puppy (R) as an emotional support animal. At first everything was fine, but as the months passed and O developed a profound hatred and jealousy toward R. He is extremely possessive, and did not like R being around me or him in any regard, despite my R's friendliness and eagerness to play with O. O began to hiss quite frequently and become unrecognizable to me and others.
One day, I was visiting my mom's with R and O began to attack him, quite viciously. Though he does not have claws, he continued to hiss and fight with R. R is a sweetheart who thinks that O was playing, and did not recognize the severity of the situation. It was getting very bad as R kept barking and O kept hissing, and I had to step in and separate them. I had put R in another room and O was absolutely furious that I had defended R instead of him.
After things had calmed down as they were separated, O remained aggressive and very angry with me for favoring R. He made the ugliest and angry deep growling(?) sounds and bit me, not once but twice. This resulted in 2 extremely deep bits on my leg which caused an infection and now very dark scarring. I have been terrified of him ever since.
There is another cat in my mom's house (M), who is the sweetest bean you will ever meet. She is constantly wanting to cuddle and show love, especially to O. They've lived together with my mom for almost 3 years now. They have been like brother and sister, and she has kept him great company.
Out of nowhere O has grown to hate her, and whenever M is around he will hiss repeatedly and attack her, whether or not she's trying to show love to him/be friends/make amends, or if she's by herself in the apartment. He wants her gone. This has been happening for over a month now.
I brought her to my father's house to see if some time apart would make things better, but it didn't change anything. Once I brought her back to my mom's, O started hissing consistently and wanting to attack her. They have now been separated in my mom's apartment, because we are scared he will attack her or even one of us.
My mom eventually wants a dog in the near future, after having interacted so much with mine and realizing that she needs an emotional companion that she can train (we have grown up with dogs). Seeing how O reacted to R, my mom is hopeless and knows that if she does end up getting a dog, O will end up attacking the dog, my mom, or both of them.
I have absolutely no idea what to do. The good thing is that M and R get along beautifully. R comforts M and showers her in kisses and love, and vice versa. But, I am unable to keep her at my father's as there is just not enough room (small townhouse). I am also unable to commit to adopting another animal, as R is a handful as it is and I don't want him to feel replaced (like O did).
What do I do? Do I rehome/put O up for adoption? Is that even an option with how aggressive his behavior is? The only way there'd be a successful rehome is if he went to someone who has no other pets. When O is alone he is sweet and warms up with time, he has just unfortunately turned into a different cat when other animals are in the mix and pose a threat to him.
I would appreciate any advice anyone has, as it has become a very tense and somewhat dangerous environment
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2022.01.19 16:39 Reldar Will you be playing the Tiberian Sun mod upon release?
Assuming there are enough people online to find matches easily, will you be playing it?
I loved playing Tiberian Sun back in the day and can't wait to get back into it with all the OpenRA improvements and conveniences. Red Alert 1 will always be great, but it doesn't have the dark and gloomy atmosphere that Tiberian Sun provides.
As much as I am looking forward to it, I'm concerned that like Dune 2000 and Tiberian Dawn, the multiplayer lobbies will be mostly empty.
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2022.01.19 16:39 ThroatRecka IONIQ 5 Several available that are inbound (30-45 DAYS), NO MARK UPS, I do require a deposit if you want to reserve it
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2022.01.19 16:39 reddolele Davie504 d&d Char
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2022.01.19 16:39 OcHoppin You can't put the relationship genie back in the bottle
I just read the obituary of Marty Roberts of piano duo Marty and Elaine fame at the Dresden in Los Angeles. And lately I've been seeing a lot of posts about Lux and Ivy form the Cramps. It's made me think about those relationships that were life long and unbreakable. I've (M59) been reflecting on my past relationships after my last breakup with someone I still love but will probably never see again. She was only one of two people I truly loved.
I'm crushed to realize I'll never be able to have one of those unbreakable, unshakable, lifelong partnerships. A partner in love, where everyone around us knows that we are we, we are us, not just the two individuals. Where the relationship is a third character. The classic thing where sum is more than the parts.
I was headed that way with my first relationship (F57), but she was a latent narcissist who was at first quite fun and bearable but grew to be a monster with financial success and an expanding ego. 33 years gone. We have kids together so she's never fully going away but it's tolerable at this point.
With my second relationship, she (F54) was all in at the start, just as I was still learning to trust again. It was a LDR, which was very difficult for me. I'm ADHD. It felt like a constant state of time anxiety for me. By the time I was really deeply in love with her, I think I had worn her out and wore out my welcome. We were on two different trajectories. I was falling more in love with her as she was falling out of love with me. Then I had the mother of all ADHD panic attacks that killed it once and for all. Four and a half years gone. Three and a half years full of memories I never, ever want to lose. My reaction to the pandemic, the LDR, fear of losing her if I brought up my fears clouded the last year.
I'll never be able to have that lifelong partnership that I've always wanted. My history is fractured across two very different people, one of which I can talk to but really don't want to talk to because of the hurt and mental damage she has caused me. And with the other, the person I did see spending the rest of my life with, I'm the person who caused the hurt and mental damage. My history dies with those two people.
I don't want to learn someone new. I don't want to have to explain my multitude of quirks to anyone. I don't want to have to explain my history, I know I'm attractive to people at first (hello ADHD masking!) but I'm quite a lot to take when you know me intimately. I'm depressed from the thought that, as I enter the last 15-20 years of my life, I'll probably not have the partnership I've always wanted. I'm OK being alone. But really, I'm not OK being alone.
TLDR: I'm entering the last phase of my life and won't have a long time partner as I had always envisioned.
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2022.01.19 16:39 SeniorWilson44 [Serious] Is Rovell on the spectrum?
I say this in all seriousness. He has an obsession with things and fights about really obscure things. He doesn’t pick up social cues well, and doesn’t seem to be able to read rooms when needed. I legit think Rovell is on the spectrum and is just too old to be diagnosed at this point. Am I crazy for seeing this?
Obviously people on the spectrum aren’t all assholes, but he just checks so many boxes.
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2022.01.19 16:39 RedBullRoss Fingertip grip. This may sound crazy but this B100 we use at the office is one of the best shapes ive used, would the new fnatic possibly be similar? Hopefully its not too large, I main a Finalmouse UL2, ive tried all the Logitech gaming mice, none worked.
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2022.01.19 16:39 bucket--bot and teach tink
2022.01.19 16:39 hailnaux FiveThirtyEight on the damage created by perpetuating The Big Lie
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2022.01.19 16:39 insomni_yak001 anyone have PCOS, insulin resistance or take Metformin?
Hey all- I have PCOS- therefore insulin resistance. Not bad enough to be prediabetic, but the standard course of treatment is Metformin, which I couldn’t tolerate (total insomnia, pain, constipation that barely responded to laxatives).
I’m wondering if anyone else with histamine issues has issue with Metformin as it suppresses DAO and increases histamine blood levels/alters histamine reabsorption in the gut
Not sure what to do - wait til I become prediabetic isn’t my favorite option but it seems like the rest of the drugs for insulin resistance requires that. Wonder if by chance there’s anyone in a similar situation.
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2022.01.19 16:39 stylic1 Watch "crispy Jalebiyan #orignalRecipe #cooking #mouthwatering" on YouTube
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2022.01.19 16:39 brandon_the_bald [BlakeHarris] The Dodgers have 5 prospects in @BaseballAmerica ‘s Top 100 list 23: Diego Cartaya 38: Bobby Miller 40: Miguel Vargas 76: Michael Busch 99: Ryan Pepiot
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2022.01.19 16:39 Falekoth1177 Chamania
Chamania is a vanilla server with over 100 members. We have a variety of kingdoms or you can create your own kingdom. We have helpful admins and friendly players to make it an all around great experience for everyone. Join our discord today. https://discord.gg/AFTMW84meb
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2022.01.19 16:39 Lilyyaaa A massage would be nice ☺️
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2022.01.19 16:39 roberto7877 How has the 'First Strike' rune been working out for you guys?
I was excited when I saw the first strike rune being revealed. I play Lux in the support lane and like poking a lot. I see the damage and money earning ability but am unsure how effective each is turning out to be.
How has the extra damage been?
How has the extra gold been?
I like to play aggressive in lane and need to decide if I want "First Strike" or "Comet"
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2022.01.19 16:39 Pk0rion With the way someone acted in the past can they still achieve nirvana?
Excuse me if I have a lack of understanding of anything under Buddhism but let's say someone acted horrible in their past but now decided they want have their next life as another human than a cow perhaps? Would their next actions of good karma erase all the bad things they done or do they have to re do the cycles of rebirth? (Ie having to be reborn as multiple animals) Again I'm sorry if my words don't make sense I'm trying to understand more of Buddhism and maybe live a path to please Lord Buddha.
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2022.01.19 16:39 Ok-Split9957 Tarkov Emotional Damage - #shorts #EFT #EscapeFromTarkov #emotionaldamage
2022.01.19 16:39 PaulSnowman SEC Chairman Considering New Rules
SEC Chairman GENSLER: Considering new rules impacting hedge fund disclosures. Among them lessening the length of days from 10 to 5 for anyone who acquires more then 5% ownership.
(Current regulation) The SEC requires anyone who acquires more than 5 percent ownership of any class of registered securities to file a Schedule 13D within 10 days
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2022.01.19 16:39 IWWUpstateNewYork If You Are In The Hudson Valley and Interested in Unionizing as a Worker or Tenant
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2022.01.19 16:39 stanksnax A French soldier's letter home
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2022.01.19 16:39 Nohan07 Karl, consultant gestion des affaires | Qu'est-ce qu'être Français ? #08
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2022.01.19 16:39 Probeatz $5 in $LGX token - Legion Network (NO KYC or Deposit, huge potential!)
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2022.01.19 16:39 bpfink8 Found a chrysalis is my GF’s blanket, what should I do (details in comments)!?
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